Is Self-Employment the Key to Worklife Balance?

I’ve been working on a book–and blog–that explores work-life balance, and how we can all build happier and healthier lives. This post seemed relevant to all you writers out there!

Lean Back

The other day I received a press release from Elaine Biech, the author of The New Business of Consulting: The Basics and Beyond, about worklife balance for consultants. “On one hand, you get to do the work you love while enjoying perks like setting your own schedule and traveling to exciting cities. But on the other hand, you must endure the punishing realities of your job: 4:00 a.m. flights, hours upon hours of work, poorly prepared restaurant food, and getting home at midnight after a long week.”

It got me thinking! So often we associate overwork culture with companies that demand we work longer hours and answer emails in the middle of the night. But that’s not always the case. Being self-employed brings a whole new level of stress to the table.

It’s not just consultants that run themselves ragged despite having more control over their schedules than most…

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Career vs. Lifestyle

I started a new site to collect my thoughts about work-life balance and changing the way we think about success. Here is one of the first posts from “Lean Back.” If you like it, please visit and subscribe!

Lean Back

“What do you want to be when you grow up?” We ask kids that all the time. When they get older and start thinking about college, we tweak the question a little, but we keep asking it. We rarely ever ask anyone, “What kind of life do you want when you grow up?”

Frankly, it’s a better question.

When I was in elementary school, if you asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up, I’d tell you I wanted to be a veterinarian/gymnast. (Who would take care of my patients while I was competing at the Olympics?) But then I quit gymnastics when I was in the fourth grade, and I realized I’d spend a good portion of my life sobbing if I was a vet. (Seriously, veterinarians have a hard job and it shows in their mental health.)

I wish someone had asked me…

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Big Little Podcast

Anyone who knows me, knows that my most frequently uttered phrase is, “There’s this podcast…” Well, now I’m officially part of the podcast revolution. I’m so happy to introduce a fun big, little project I worked on with a couple of friends.

Take a stroll down Monterey’s Memory Lane. Relive Season 1 of Big Little Lies with us.

In one 7 hour long marathon recording session, we drank some boxed wine and dished about Monterey’s favorite murderers. (Bonus points if you can pinpoint the episode where we actually start to get drunk.) If you loved Big Little Lies and wished you had someone to talk to about it, this is the podcast for you!

We explore all the important questions.

Is Madelyn a nightmare? Is Ed a creep? Are all the men creeps? Which of the husbands would you marry/f*ck/kill? Is Otter Bay’s first grade taeacher the worst teacher alive? Which kid is the creepiest? (It’s always Amabella.)

You can binge all of Season 1 today in anticipation of Season 2 — iTunes, Stitcher, or our website.

And I want to know if you’re a Madelyn, Celeste, Jane, Bonnie, or Renata?

Happy Sunday: Free Thinkers

Over the past month or so, I have wasted an inordinate amount of time watching two guys watch and react to music videos. It started–as so many of my YouTube rabbit holes do–with Jason Isbell. But it quickly led to Chris Stapleton and Amanda Lambert…and even some Alanis Morrissette.

Here’s the premise: Ryan and George, two black men , listen to music you might not expect them to like (based on stereotypes), and they react. I don’t think I have ever wanted to be friends with two people as much as I want to be friends with Ryan and George. Continue reading

Happy Sunday: Weird Kid

Bon Iver is usually just a little too chill for me. But Bonnie Raitt’s Nick of Time was probably my favorite album when I was in, like, second grade. (I was a weird kid.) I even did my Gym Show routine to “Have a Heart.” So, this one caught my attention.